National Adoption Awareness Month aims to connect children and families

  • By Angela Workman
  • November 19, 2012
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Summary: November is National Adoption Awareness Month. The purpose of the month is to raise awareness about the different types of adoption and encourage permanent connections for every child. The process of adoption comes with both joy and struggle. Not every child is fortunate enough to have a permanent home. In fact, many children are shuffled through foster homes until they age out, or until a family is willing to adopt them. November is National Adoption Awareness Month, and it exists to reinforce permanent connections for all children. The world is a lonely place when a child hasn't managed to find a loving family. When coupled with the pressures of getting good grades, fitting in at school and enjoying childhood—a recipe for insecurity is created when there isn’t a stable family. Adoption comes with a wide range of experiences, however. Families who have adopted through Christian Children’s Home of Ohio (CCHO) shared some of their own thoughts on the process. “There are some things in the lives of your children that you just can't fix. Early childhood abuse and neglect leave scars that no amount of loving parenting will alleviate,” explained Phil Roberts, adoptive parent. “Your task as a second family for these children is to invite them to a better way of living.” Roberts’ had advice to offer as well. He suggested adoptive families surround themselves with supportive people. Family, friends and professionals can reduce the strain. There are tough times as children and families adjust to one another. “Find those who have also experienced ‘family mess’ and lean on their friendship. Don't go it alone,” Roberts continued. Further, Todd and Melinda Smith have adopted four boys and have also served as foster parents. In a period of six years, the family cared for 30 foster children. To these parents, the best part was what they got back from the adoption—seeing the four boys happy. Combating a past that is likely littered with abuse and neglect is not easy, but it’s worth it in the end. “I wish I knew how truly hard it was going to be. It brings out the worst and the best in us,” said Rita Roberts, adoptive parent. Further, Rita and Phil Roberts view adoption as a ministry. Rita Roberts’ profession as a social worker inspired the couple to adopt. They have adopted a total of four children, all of which were considered special needs. “It’s a tough, tough job. Don’t feel guilty or weak because of the struggles you’ll face, the doubts and fears. Make sure you have a strong support system and be willing to reach out, not just to your friends and family, but to others who’ve adopted and can relate to what you’re experiencing. They will help you to keep perspective,” Phil Roberts added. Rhonda Greer, adoption supervisor for Christian Children’s Home of Ohio, explained that “there are nearly 3,000 children and adolescents in the state of Ohio who are in need of adoptive families. CCHO offers training to help families prepare for the ministry of foster care and adoption. Once a potential adoptive or foster family is finished with training, we have adoption assessors ready to guide the family through the home study process. Our job doesn't end there. We match families with waiting children and support the family and child through the adjustment period. We also facilitate an ongoing adoption support group every month for any family in the community who is in the process or has adopted.” Anyone interested in adoption or foster to adopt can contact Rhonda Greer at 330-345-7949, ext. 2336.


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